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Friday, February 27, 2009

Tell me my friend, do you still break the hearts?

 I had been assigned the F. Scott Fitzgerald short story Winter Dreams in my English class. While reading the story, I drew parallels between the characters of the book and my life, the way many readers do, and I realized that I actually know someone like the "Judy Jones" of the story.

In Fitzgerald's story, Judy Jones is a femme fatale that can have any man she wants because of her beautiful looks. She does indeed chase after every man she meets and is attracted more to their looks and wealth than she is to the men themselves -- someone who we would call a gold digger in our vernacular. The person that I see when I think about her is someone who realizes that she can bait guys along with a little piece here and there and still keep them all under her fingertips. A person who doesn't fully realize what she does even though she does it all the time. Subconsciously, a bitch.

It sucks to be one of the guys who knows about all of the other guys that are also suckers. That's why I stopped caring and/or trying a long, long time ago. It just wasn't worth it.

By the way, Fitzgerald's story ends with a wonderful poetic justice: Judy Jones marries a Lud Simms (ugly name), who is coincidentally an alcoholic and womanizer who doesn't know how to treat marriage --and his wife-- as sacred, to say the least.

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"vernacular"...haha i like that :]

Judy Jones sounds lonely.
Posted 2/26/2009 1:09 PM by asdfghjkieu - recommend - reply

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i feel like you're talking about me.

i'm either conceited or a subconscious bitch. ...dammit.
Posted 2/26/2009 11:20 PM by iheartmonkey12 - recommend - reply

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Judy Jones lonely? Well, yes and no.
On the outside, she's surrounded on all sides by men who would love to have her as a trophy wife. On the inside, she almost subconsciously plays around with their hearts, making them fall in love with her (what we call leading a man on these days) because she is insecure and does not know how to be happy while with only one man.
So... popular heartbreaking trophy wife/eye candy on the outside, lonely insecure little girl on the inside. I don't know whether I feel sorry for her or not.

Damn, that was long.

And yes. Vernacular.
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@B2yan_C -  yes, because she is insecure & she is always seeking for company from different men...she is lonely because her heart is never fully satisfied..like she's always looking for something else and her heart is empty because of that. i have a (rich) friend who has these similar 'symptoms' so yeah...i can relate :]

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I believe the reason she was never able to be satisfied was because she had no idea what she wanted. In the story by Fitzgerald, of course, Judy Jones thinks she found what she wanted in a man, and ends up spending the rest of her life being tormented by an alcoholic and probably abusive husband. Poetic jusice, my English teacher called it.

Anyway, I think everyone has a friend like that. Or maybe more than one. I think I know enough girls that are that way that I don't care anymore. I don't care enough to judge these days; I blow it all off like I do with life and school.

You try not to be one of those girls, and I'll try not to be an idiot. That way, life will be good, yes?
Posted 2/27/2009 12:10 AM by B2yan_C - recommend - reply

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I'm more of what Judy Jones is from the inside.
I am nothing like what she is on the outside, for some reason
a lot of guys see me more as the "sister" type.

I never knew what I do to have the "sister" label.


You're a guy, right, what does it mean?
You're like a "sister."

WTF?!
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Errr. To be frank, I guess you should think about what how you tell a guy that he's "like a brother" to you when you don't feel like you two are compatible for a dating relationship. That's your answer, imo.

But then, in other times, there are some guys who tell girls that they love them like a sister because they're afraid of voicing their romantic feelings for fear of rejection.

Your call?
Posted 2/28/2009 10:30 PM by B2yan_C - recommend - reply

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hmmmmmmmmmm

I'd like to think its neither and that I am sisterly type?
I don't know.
I don't even like these guys who call me a "sister" I am the type of girl that likes
the guys that I would probably never hold a conversation with. (because I am insecure)
Posted 3/1/2009 12:12 AM by vballer1410 - recommend - reply

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): i have to do a bio on F. Scott Fitzgerald's life.
Posted 12/4/2009 4:41 PM by princessremy - recommend - reply


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